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What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

12.06.2025 11:10

What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?

The Ice Breaker Questions

43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?

If Jesus was crucified by Governor Pontius Pilate, why does the Quran deny his death?

Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?

35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?

10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.

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8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?

1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?

77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?

Why are so many young teenage boys misogynistic? Where do they get these attitudes from?

14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?

69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?

68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?

Can you share 100 facts about yourself?

4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)

15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?

34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?

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25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?

65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?

6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?

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80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊

26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?

42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

Why do some people hesitate to say 'I love you' even after their partners have said it first? How can one interpret this behavior from their loved ones?

33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?

Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager

2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?

Why do most atheists in debates with theists take Bible verses out of context much of the time? Are they lying maliciously or do they not understand theology enough to understand the meaning?

18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?

Does the thought excite you? Care to share?

Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced

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45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?

49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?

15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?

Why is America so fucked up?

What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?

29- How superstitious are you?

78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?

How can targeted individuals protect themselves from organized stalking? Have you discovered practical strategies?

How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)

44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?

14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?

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If yes, what?

56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?

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28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?

7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?

Family Relation Age Play

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Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant

Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?

79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?

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Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?

Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?

48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?

5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?

42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?

Any that are a turn off?

64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?

3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?

50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?

8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?

Would you read them together?

8- What are your thoughts on politics?

60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?

What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?

3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?

Do you watch it? What is your favorite?

3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?

*** Random Questions ***

*** Deal Breaker Questions ***

37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?

30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?

Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?

14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?

40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?

Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?

52~ What are your hobbies?

46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?

73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?

27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?

85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?

59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?

3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)

17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?

72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?

Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…

(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)

35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?

61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?

6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?

Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…

19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?

67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?

4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?

20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?

If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?

5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?

90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?

1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?

If you win, what will you make them do?

If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?

4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?

Nothing too Serious

13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?

76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?

36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?

40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?

4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)

22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?

I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?

12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?

10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?

26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?

Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…

Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?

* Give a rating for each one (0-100)

34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?

Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?

30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?

32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?

11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?

13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?

*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***

38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?

If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?

23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)

7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?

66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?

5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?

Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?

16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?

82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?

Have you ever? Care to Share?

1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?

9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?

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That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!

Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?

63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?

How old are you? Male or Female?

47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)

89~ Do you like taking showers together?

17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?

How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?

16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?

55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me

Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?

12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?

48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?

7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?

Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?

24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?

25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)

What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/

Any that are a turn off?

9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?

Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?

19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?

39~ What are your love languages?

21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?

13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?

88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?

47~ What would be your dream job and why?

41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?

28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?

31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?

How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?

85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,

57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?

Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan

44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?

2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?

62~ Have you used adult toys?

54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?

9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?

11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?

How many times do you think you have “made love”?

Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand

1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)

3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?

Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?

Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?

You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.

93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…

74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?

Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?

Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client

46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?

5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?

6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?

71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?

27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.

These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…

11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?

58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?

51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?

Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts

20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?

What was the longest? What was the shortest?

31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)

What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?

12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?

18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?

52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?

9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?

41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.

Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?

36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

Master/Slave Boss/Maid

75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?

*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***

Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.

15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?

11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?

If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)

91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?

22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?

20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?

37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?

43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?

* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?

39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?

*** Questions About Me ***

33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?

51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?

92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?

53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?

If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.

Model/Photographer Police/Criminal

2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.

19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?

8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.

Do you think this brought you closer together?

16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?

17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?

21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?

How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?

81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?

70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?

92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?

1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?

What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.

10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?

Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?

2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?

What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?

5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?

33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?

Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?

84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?

18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?

45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)

10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?

A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…

6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?

7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?

32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?

22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?

38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?

29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?

What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?

(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?

Please share Did you stop?

24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)

23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?

9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?

83~ How do you feel about Porn?

14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?

What is your favorite position? Why?